Finally, take the responsibility by law or laws of moral justice.
Be honest with her and together come up with how to deal with the scenario. Get her in her best moods, when it is the two of you, preferably, away from home. Let your wife get the information from you before someone else gives her the 'abridged' version. One of the best ways of dealing with adversity is to stay ahead of the information. You should encourage and support her to keep that pregnancy and make sure the child is raised responsibly. A responsible man takes responsibility for his actions and that pregnancy is your responsibility. How do you go terming her as irresponsible? It is interesting how you realise this only now after sleeping with her severally. But first wait for the birth of the child then you can do a DNA test to confirm paternity then if it turns out positive you can do what will be required of you. You better inform your wife and your parents of this pregnant lady and be ready to support her and her baby because it has happened after your prolonged relationship. People already know of the story so in case she procures abortion and she dies or something happens you shall be the first culprit. I would not encourage you to ask anyone to terminate a pregnancy. Others sleep with their daughters on the instructions of leaders of secret cults, who promise spiritual powers or prolonged lives.This is a problem of your own making. Well, it later emerged that the politician had been advised by a local witch doctor to commit the offence to help him win the elections. Remember the case of the MP from Western Kenya who could no longer visit his village home during the day due to shame as neighbours found out that he was sleeping with his daughter? Others blame such acts on orders from ‘higher powers.’
But the court said the sentence was commensurate to the offence committed. In mitigation, Lekirimpoto, pleaded for leniency because he was the sole breadwinner. He is said to have turned on the teenager after he had domestic differences with his wife and proceeded to defile her.Ī quarrel ensued after the incident, prompting the complainant and her mother to report the accused at Wamba Police Station after which he was arrested. The court heard that the accused, his stepdaughter and his wife were sleeping in the same bed when he committed the offence. The then Maralal Principal Magistrate, Charles Ndegwa who sentenced Lesunya Lekirimpoto, said the prosecution had proved beyond reasonable doubt that the accused had committed the offence and “the court sentences the accused to serve 20 years in jail to serve as an example to would-be offenders.”
It was such a twisted family,” she claimed.īut not all cases involve mentally-disturbed fathers sometimes a totally sane man can take advantage of a mentally-ill daughter.Ī while back, a Maralal court slapped a 60-year-old man with a 20-year jail sentence for defiling his mentally-ill stepdaughter and infecting her with a sexually transmitted disease.
His wife and family members were aware of what was going on, but did not do anything.
Irene Waruru, a businesswoman based in Kiambu, claims that one of her neighbours slept with his biological daughter for years without being questioned. Hyderabad: Man arrested for raping 19-year-old daughter. His daughter too denied there was any sexual relationship between them.īut why do fathers sleep with their daughters? And do girls fancy sexual intimacy with their fathers? Is it that some men have such a low sense of value and coupled with their insatiable desire for sex, are blinded into engaging in such distasteful incestuous acts? In the case above, the 51-year-old Kamotho denied the allegations, claiming his wife was peddling lies to tarnish his name for refusing to accept her back.